Every day we have to communicate with different types of personalities. With some, conversations are pleasant, while others carry a note of annoyance, sometimes irritation. We have to talk to them when we go to work (or come home), when we shop at their store, while we work, exercise in the gym, etc.
The talkers, those personalities that you are afraid to ask because they won't stop talking for at least 10 minutes. How to deal with them? See some steps.
This is the first and main step. This way, you will know if the person across from you has something important to share, maybe an emotion, a problem even.But it is quite possible that they are talking to you just to impress you with something. If what they are telling you about you is not of interest, don't give them too much time, but start by listening and in the process you will judge whether it is important to you or not.
Just leave or keep doing what you feel like doing
It may seem harsh, but it is effective. If the person who is wasting your time with idle talk disturbs your work, your peace, your sports activity, just turn and leave, saying goodbye or continue with your tasks. You have given him enough time and he should understand that he should be more concise in his speeches.
Ask often what is essential
One main characteristic of people who talk a lot is that they constantly divert the essential matter with trivialities and details.In this case, it will be good to remind them what the main point of your conversation is. However, be careful how you ask the question, because everything can start from the beginning and drag on even more. The important thing here is to show that others should respect your time and the time you give them.
Politely interrupt them
If after all your previous attempts to end the annoying conversation, the person continues to talk, it's time to be more confident and assertive. Politely interrupt him, that way he can realize that he has gone on too long. If you want to say something, do it. In case they ask you to finish your thought, give them a short time, but in general you should be firm and not let them waste your time in unwanted communication.
Declare you don't have time
There are individuals who don't feel or don't care, who keep you busy, who interrupt an important conversation with another person, who interfere with your work, your lunch, etc.n. They do not understand hints and politeness because they only think about themselves and what they want to say.
That is why such individuals are de alt with sharply. Just tell them that you're very busy at the moment and that you can't be bothered to pay attention to them later after you finish the conversation you're having with another person. If they do happen to misunderstand your courtesy, "Not now, I'm still busy" should give them a clear signal that they've crossed the line.